Our tendency is to fight what we cannot control. We kick and scream against the force that threatens to pull us under. This actually tightens the invisible grip that life has on us. The way out is to not resist; this feels counterintuitive.
In this exercise we experiment with a difficult situation, we practice releasing that natural tend
Our tendency is to fight what we cannot control. We kick and scream against the force that threatens to pull us under. This actually tightens the invisible grip that life has on us. The way out is to not resist; this feels counterintuitive.
In this exercise we experiment with a difficult situation, we practice releasing that natural tendency to fight against reality, to fight against what we cannot control.
Saying no can be difficult. We worry that we will disappoint others, damage relationships, be viewed as selfish. Many of us have been conditioned to feel guilty when we say no, even when saying yes is not in our own best interest. Often, saying yes when we don’t want to creates internal conflict resulting in resentment and exhaustion.
Saying no can be difficult. We worry that we will disappoint others, damage relationships, be viewed as selfish. Many of us have been conditioned to feel guilty when we say no, even when saying yes is not in our own best interest. Often, saying yes when we don’t want to creates internal conflict resulting in resentment and exhaustion. Establishing healthy boundaries lets others know what is important to us, how to work with us. In this meditation exercise we create a safe space and then we experiment with setting boundaries and saying no. Learning to say no is a process How do we get better at this? We identify and befriend our fears and we practice. We take what we learn through our meditation process and apply it in our lives.
Music by TunePockets - Teardrops
The following exercise is a gentle practice that builds self-confidence and teaches us how to own our accomplishments. Some have been taught that it is 'wrong' to claim our achievements, that this is arrogant and boastful. Perhaps well-intended, this philosophy is erroneous. It assumes that we cannot own our strengths and accomplishments
The following exercise is a gentle practice that builds self-confidence and teaches us how to own our accomplishments. Some have been taught that it is 'wrong' to claim our achievements, that this is arrogant and boastful. Perhaps well-intended, this philosophy is erroneous. It assumes that we cannot own our strengths and accomplishments and also remain humble. We can do both.
When we are able to reflect on what we are most proud of and how we achieved this, we gain strength and power. We shift the story when we are able to connect that our achievements are not a result of external forces (yes, we are grateful for the help we've received) and are also the result of our work.